In everyday life in Japan, there are unspoken rules that are unspoken, but for some reason are followed. Let us consider such "mysterious manners" from a slightly different perspective.
The custom of pouring beer with the label facing up. This is used as a way to show off the brand of beer. Pouring with the label visible gives the impression of what you are drinking, while at the same time doubling the enjoyment of drinking with a bit of presentation.
The subtle angle of the stamp. This is not just a precaution. It is a way to show respect by tilting the stamp as if you are bowing toward your boss. By tilting the stamp, it is not just a seal, but also carries the meaning of respect.
It is an interesting custom to show respect to the other party by arranging business cards like a cushion when exchanging business cards. Avoiding handing out business cards and placing them on a table or the like before handing them over shows one's concern for the other person.
These mysterious manners may add a little color to our lives. It is not just a custom, but it is filled with thoughtfulness and respect. They are also tools for facilitating communication with others and maintaining social harmony.
Therefore, it may be interesting to consider these mystery manners not only as rules, but also the meaning behind them. Secrets of our society that have been built up without our knowledge. By being aware of them, our daily life will become deeper and richer.
Example
Tokkuri spout etiquette: Do not use the spout when pouring sake from a sake cup at a drinking party. Using the spout of a sake cup gives a rude impression and may give the impression that you are cutting off the relationship.
Manners at a wake or funeral: At a wake or funeral, "black" attire is considered the general manner, and the mask should also be black. In such cases, etiquette instructors should focus on the choice of black attire and masks without questioning the market price of the attire. Metal Business Card Holder Manners: Metal business card holders are considered to be of a lower grade than leather products and should not be used. The use of metal business card holders is bad manners, and various drawbacks have been pointed out, including the fact that they make rattling noises and make business cards slippery. Business card size etiquette: The size of a business card is considered a factor that indicates a person's "class," and a business card that is larger than the other person's is considered rude. It is considered rude to present a business card that is larger than the other person's. It is considered good manners to show respect to the other person by cutting off your own card and making it smaller. Manners for remote meetings: During remote meetings, it is considered polite to bow deeply when pressing the "end meeting" button. It is important to avoid leaving the room before the meeting is over and not to leave before the other party. Offering Money Manners: The amount of money offered has a meaning. For example, 10 yen is considered a distant relative, 500 yen has no further significant effect, and 65 yen indicates that you have no connection with the person you are offering money to. It is considered good manners to understand these meanings and choose an appropriate amount. Manner of stamping: If you have your boss's stamp, it is said that when stamping a document, you should tilt the stamp toward your boss. This is considered to look like bowing and to show respect to the boss. Manners for tea and drinks: It is considered that you should not touch the tea and drinks offered by your business partner. This requires consideration for the intentions and manners of the other party and avoiding rudeness. Manner of positioning glasses during toasts: It is considered that one's glass should be brought lower than the other party's during toasts. However, it is noted that there is a risk of sake spillage if the other party also intends to do the same. Manners for pouring beer: When pouring beer, it is considered that the label of the beer should face up. The reason for this is not specified, but it is considered important to keep the label facing up. Manners for wearing jackets: It is expected that jackets should not be removed even on hot days. Regardless of trends such as "Cool Biz," it is considered good manners to wear a jacket and tie. Cab seating etiquette: When riding in a cab, the boss should sit in the back and you should sit in the passenger seat. This is considered to be a manner of showing respect to your boss by taking advantage of the space and comfort of the passenger seat. CC order in business e-mail: The order of CC in business e-mail is also considered to be important. It may seem like a meaningless act, but it is considered an important element to show respect for good manners.
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